Tonight… I had my loyal friends show up to laugh, dine, and spend an evening with me. I am glad that my friends were there to help me celebrate an early birthday before the next week of school. However… It also is the night of my ultimate dishonor from my family. Let this fact me know… For my birthday event, I didn’t make presents mandatory because I value the company of my friends before anything material. My expectations were for a friendly gathering of people eating and wind away the night with a drink.
My sister decided to bring the war to my footsteps. So by next week… I face the hardest battle of my life. To be fair, I have my own “tactical nuke” to deploy on my sister with regards to family drama. I will say this: I do not die silently. I die fighting. My sister will regret making my life Hell because I will ensure that she will regret causing me to essentially declare an emotional war with my family.
I leave this quote as a prelude to the “Theatre of War”…
“Do unto others as you would have them do to you.”
Luke 6:31
If I don’t talk much, just know I will probably be trying to re-stabilize my life…
I got you in my prayers buddie, I know how you are and I know you shall stand strong. I've been in a phase myself but am lurking in the shadows, so I'm here for you. ::lots of huggles and kisses:: <3
Once the dissonance left the party it was great. It was very awkward while she was there as she chose to turn the evening into drama. You have a lot of support from friends and me as well, so do not worry on that. You don't deserve what she brought to that event…and honestly neither did I. I feel terrible for her boyfriend as he came with the spirit of the event. He went above and beyond and she turned that into something vile and that wasn't fair to him or you. I am happy the remainder of the evening went well and exuded merriment. That's what you deserve, not the painful side. Regardless of what happens next weekend you have to know your friends are here for you, as am I. Things will work out fine for you regardless…we will make sure of that 🙂
Hey Zero,
Hang in there. I am not sure what all is going on, but i just want you to know that your friends are here for you, ok? Don't ever forget that. If you ever need someone to listen to, I volunteer my ear.
And remember:
"The LORD gives strength to his people; the LORD blesses his people with peace." Psalm 29:11
Wow…
It's a brutal story and sadly I don't see any reconciliation at all with family. Reason is dead to my family at this point.